Glancing at the front pages of the newspapers these days, or watching the evening news, one gets the overwhelming impression that Nepal is breaking apart.
Media is not interested in the good things that happen, highlighting people who struggle to make a contribution to their communities and society. Things going right don't make news, things have to break to be considered a 'breaking news'. Reporters give undue importance to the corrosive rhetoric of those who want to carve Nepal up into small pieces, they highlight the handful of spoilers and ignore the vast, silent majority of Nepalis who want to live in harmony and peace.
Politicians play with fire when they whip up ethnic animosities in the name of correcting historical discrimination. Yet, the media unthinkingly gives the most prominent coverage to those who shout the loudest, who say the most outrageous things. As a pilot and talk show host myself, I have come to realise the enormous potential for the media to set things right in society by offering hope through the power of� good example. Yet, I wonder if the media is now a part of the problem.�
Which is why I wasn't surprised to find few many reporters at the Sonam Tamang new year celebrations at Tundikhel on Tuesday. This was a celebration not just of the Tamang community, but it belonged to all Nepalis. We saw Newars, Bahuns, Chhetris, Gurungs, Rais and Limbus all mingling and enjoying themselves in a rich microcosm of Nepal itself. Under a bright blue sky and the warm glow of a winter sun we celebrated a new Nepaliness that is united by its diversity. Who says Nepal is divided? Who says Nepalis can't live as one united family like they always have? Who dares break Nepal up?�
Whenever I talk to Nepalis in Kuala Lumpur, Doha or Hong Kong, they speak as if they belong to a joint Nepali family. People never talk about what divides them, but what unites them: the languages, cultures, festivals and the land of mountains, valleys and plains that we are proud to call our own. We speak in Nepali, the language that cements us, about the shared history that our ancestors built together. We say we are Nepali first, and then we belong to our various nationalities.
There is no point going into who settled here first. Except for some of the 103 ethnicities in this country, we all came from somewhere else and became Nepalis at heart. In the past few years, I have attended the new year celebrations of Nepal's other communities as well. Everywhere I find the same sense of harmony and tolerance of diversity. No one is trying to exclude any other community.
Yet, in the narrow minded politics of today we see leaders trying to drive a wedge between ethnic groups, carving up a united nation into overlapping provinces with confused boundaries, trying to create walls and fences where there aren't any.
It was telling that when the prime minister arrived at Tundikhel on Tuesday and the politicians started delivering their tired old speeches, no one was listening. Only the reporters were taking notes.
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